Who gives you relationship advice?

Dating & Relationship Glow

At Glow Coaching we have coached many women in or looking for relationships. Areas we work on are overcoming breakups, letting go of negative relationship experiences, building confidence, understanding what you are looking for in a relationship and how to find it.

Through creating a 6 step dating and relationship coaching programme, Glow Coaching has developed a range of techniques and tools that specialise in getting you the love life YOU want! We have had 100% success rate! With fantastic results, within on year of finishing the coaching programme all our clients have found happy relationships, including one marriage, an engagement and several long term relationships!

This programme consists of 6 hrs of telephone coaching, involving 6 highly effective steps that are guaranteed to boost your dating and relationship confidence. The programme will help you if you….

• Want to find a happy and fulfilling relationship?
• Want to feel confident finding the relationship that is right for you?
• Want to understand why you are not being yourself when in a relationship?
• Want to understand what you are looking for in a relationship?
• Want to be successful when dating?
• Want to get over a previous relationship?
• Want to investigate whether you are in the right relationship?

For more information about the Glow Dating Success programme including cost and free consultation please get in touch!

Step 1 -Building a Trusting Coaching Relationship

Step 2 -Developing Self Awareness and building confidence

Step 3 – Patterns in relationships and Dating Rules

Step 4- Limiting beliefs how they get in the way of you getting what you want!

Step 5- Importance of Values in finding a relationship

Step 6- Putting it into action and moving forward

 

www.glow-coaching.co.uk

 

How is your “Dating Confidence”?

In this article Liz Robson, relationship expert,  gives some tips to start building confidence. Liz has not always been confident herself but it is something she has learnt and developed and is now happy and confident in all areas of her life. Liz is passionate about sharing what she has learnt with other women, and here is a chance to find out more.

How confident are you feeling?

1)   What is Confidence?

Get a pen and paper and write down what confidence means to you. That is what confidence is.

The word confidence can mean something different to everyone. It is what is known as a nominalization a word that
sounds like it has a specific meaning but in reality it is open to interpretation. In order to build confidence firstly it is important to
identify what it means to you, secondly you will need to identify how you will know when you have it. Answer these questions, be specific.

• How will I know when I am more confident?
• How will I feel?
• What will I say?
• How will I act?
• What will people say to me or what will I hear?
• What will I look like?

If you don’t know where you are headed, how will you know when you get there. In coaching we always work on what building
this level of awareness. Once you have identified your goal you automatically take steps to start achieving it.

 

2)     What have I got to build on?

Confidence is not about starting from scratch and changing everything thing about you. It is about building on what
you already have and showing it to the world, being happy in your own skin.

Try and write at least 5 answers for the following questions. There is no room for modesty, I believe if you don’t
believe in yourself or like yourself then it is hard for others to. If you can write more that 5 brilliant!

• What’s great  about you?
• What are you  good at?
• What are you  proud of?
• What do your friends like about you?
• What physical attributes are you most proud of?
• What makes you loveable?
• What special gifts would you bring to a relationship?

Now read through this list and look it on a regular basis. See yourself how others see you, no one can be as hard on someone as we are on ourselves.

 

3)   Give yourself a compliment, even if it is only in your head, I often think to myself, I look nice to day, I like my outfit, my hair looks nice etc. These small things all add up to building confidence. If someone compliments you, say thank you a compliment is a gift, you would say thank you to a gift. By saying thank you, you are accepting the gift of a complement and registering it.

 

4)     Practice

Practice seeing yourself in a new positive light, another school of thought is to look and behave confident. If you start to act or look more confident on the outside, the inside will soon catch up.

Relationship Expert Liz Robson

Liz Robson is a specialist relationship coach who has successfully coached hundreds of women to improve
their confidence to deal with all aspects of their lives. Liz regularly features in the media when expert advice
and opinion is required when programmes focus on the complexities of relationships.

You can  check out her website at www.glow-coaching.co.uk.

 

Which Guy would be the most fun to have as a penpal?

Imagine if you could have a celebrity penpal. Which of these guys do you think would be the most fun to write to?
Perhaps there is someone else you can think of, who isn’t on the list. Vote for your favourite now or post a comment to tell us who you would choose instead!

Blogs from the front line..

Thought visitors to the site might be interested in a blog written by UK Forces media ops team about life on the front line:

http://helmandblog.blogspot.com/

Well worth a visit, if you are interested in life in the military

Inspirational story

Heard about Patrick Henry Hughes? I think his story serves as an inspiration to us all:

Feedback from British Penpals members

British Penpals was set up for people to have fun, make friends and maybe even find romance through our site. Here are just a few of the success stories we can tell you about:

March 2009: e-mail from Timothy
“Thanks to your website I have found my soul mate and we plan on marrying in October”

February 2009: e-mail from Bradley
I would like to cancel my membership.  It has served it’s purpose.  I’ve met 
and married a stunning woman who contacted me via your site.  Thank you

Michael:
“‘Joining British Penpals was a great idea of mine (I don’t get many), and because of it I have made many new friends with similar interests to my own. Thank you so much”

Sarah:

“I was recently a member of your web site, but I decided to leave after not receiving much response. I jumped the gun!!!! I couldn’t have been more wrong and have now met some lovely people, it just took them a while to respond. I was wondering if it was possible for me to rejoin your site? Please let me know if that is the case and whether I would just follow the same joining procedure as first timers?”

June 2008: e-mail from Louise
“I just wanted to say that it is thanks to this website that I met my partner. We started to write to each other whilst he was in Afghanistan, we wrote for 7 months and we met each other when he came home. We have now been with other for over a year and we are planning our long term future together. I never dreamt that I would find the love of my life on this site but it is thanks to you that we found each other.”

Want your profile on www.britishpenpals.co.uk ?

We give free membership to British Penpals to all military personnel and to join all they need to do is fill in the form at:

http://www.britishpenpals.co.uk/militaryoffer.html

If you are not in the military but would like to add your profile to the site all you need to do is send us the following information:

1) Your name and date of birth

2) Where you are from  - country, state, town

3) A 30 word ad about yourself

4) Whether you would like our members to make initial contact with you via e-mail, ordinarly post or either. (we will need your full address if you are happy for people to write letters to you – we find most members prefer initial contact to be made via e-mail)

Send the above to us at joining@britishpenpals.co.uk  Head your e-mail “Free profile -blog” and we will do the rest.

Dating women – advice please

Gareth askes Dawn for a female persepctive on his dating dilemma:

 

Advice on dating women….

THe Office : Keith giving Tim advice on the differences between men and women

 

Charlie Brown – waiting for Valentines Day